About My Father
- The daily whale
- Feb 15, 2023
- 2 min read
A spoiler free review of About My Father begins with its confidence as a comedy. Directed by Laura Terruso, it leans on Robert De Niro and Sebastian Maniscalco to give the material a human centre. At story level, When Sebastian, Italian and Salvo shape the central setup, but the later turns are best left for the film to reveal. Those ingredients give the film a useful foundation, but the lasting impression depends on how well it balances mood, character and momentum.
Its funniest moments come from contrast: confident characters meeting inconvenient reality, or a serious setup collapsing at exactly the wrong time. That comic rhythm gives the film personality beyond the basic premise. The material contains workable ideas, but the finished film feels uncertain about tone and emphasis. Momentum stalls, important beats are pushed too hard, and the performances have little space to develop beyond function. Individual moments work; the overall experience does not cohere.
Robert De Niro and Sebastian Maniscalco carry much of the emotional responsibility, and their different approaches keep the central relationship from becoming one note. Leslie Bibb makes a strong impression without pulling focus from the main line. Laura Terruso's direction gives reactions time to register, which is important in a film where a look or hesitation can communicate more efficiently than another explanatory exchange.
Thematically, About My Father is interested in status, embarrassment and the gap between the person someone wants to be and the person everyone else can plainly see. The humour matters because it exposes vanity and vulnerability at the same time, allowing a joke to reveal character instead of merely interrupting the story. The film is most persuasive when these ideas emerge from behaviour rather than speeches. That additional layer gives the story more purpose than a sequence of familiar genre beats, even if every implication is not explored with equal depth.
The technical work is modest but thoughtful. Cinematography creates an appropriate sense of intimacy, the edit finds rhythm inside conversation, and the soundtrack knows when to step back. Rather than demanding admiration, these elements create conditions in which the cast can hold attention. That may be less immediately spectacular, but it suits a film whose meaning depends on behaviour.
The largest issue is a lack of dramatic accumulation. Events happen, but they do not build on one another with enough force, and the emotional cues feel imposed rather than discovered. By the final stretch, the film is asking for a response it has not prepared.
About My Father has a workable premise and a committed cast, yet the finished film never turns those elements into a persuasive whole. Only the most patient comedy fans who enjoy character, timing and an ensemble willing to look a little foolish are likely to find it rewarding.
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